Pet Peeves

I have two major pet peeves. 1. Ants. And 2. Dirty smelling towels. (Well…maybe three pet peeves. The third is when I'm talking to someone, and they don't respond or even acknowledge that they heard me…moving on…) It's only day 5 or so, and I think I'm going to have to come to terms with 1 and 2 because I have to deal with them EVERY DAY!

The ants here in this house, thankfully, are teeny tiny, but they are extremely fast, and if you so much as drop a crumb, the ants will go marching in no time. I hope I don't become certifiably obsessive compulsive after this year. I will say though, that I did actually help out some ants my first night in this house. I noticed a crowd of ants on the floor in our bathroom. At first I couldn't tell what they were so excited about. Later that day, I discovered that they were dragging what looked like a little lizard corpse which they had picked dry until it was just a skeleton, just an inch and a half long. And they tugged that thing from the floor up the wall like five feet, across the wall, and then out the window to someplace. I removed an obstacle from their path so they could get that thing out of there. Aren't I helpful? 

The dirty smelling towels are inevitable as a result of the humidity here. The towels don't easily dry. I've let myself air dry the last two times I've showered, because when I tried to dry myself with a stinky towel, I was so annoyed that I showered all over again. The truth is, this just means I have to do more laundry, which you all know I hate, and which I have more to speak of later. Uuuggghhh! Why did I ever complain when I had it so easy before?

Our Landlord

Our home is gorgeous. It's old, and there are MANY inconveniences, but it's this beautiful two story home with Swahili architecture--white walls with dark wood beams. In front of every window are dark latticed window panes and decorative iron works. Each room is large, already equipped with the furniture and the housewares we need, including mosquito nets.

Our landlord, Ma Suma, is a kind lady. She's from Tanzania. I don't know if she's Muslim. The doors have Arabic prayers written above them, but she doesn't wear any special Muslim clothes. Hunter said something interesting about her the other day.

Ma Suma has three servants--it's quite common here. A man, Lenik, who let's us in and out of the gate;

 a woman, Elise, who handles laundry; and a gardener whose name I don't know. Well, one day, Hunter witnessed Ma scolding Lenik for something, and he said it made him feel angry inside when he saw the embarrassment in Lenik's face. "I would have been a revolutionary" he said. I knew it was common to have house help here, but I didn't think I'd ever have to deal with the ethical dilemmas involved with "classes" and the mistreatment of servants. Quite disturbing. Anyway, I hope Ma's servants know they can at least count on kind greetings from us.

On the other hand, I scolded Paulo yesterday for repeatedly swinging my newly hand-washed white laundry and allowing it to touch the ground when he should have been handing it to me so I could hang it on the clothes line. I realized I probably just wounded my boy just as Ma did to Lenik, so who am I to judge.

Culture Shock!

The first day or so, I experienced what you'd call "culture shock". I knew it would happen; I just couldn't help it. I found myself peaking out the cracks in the windows observing what people wore, wondering if I brought anything appropriate to wear. I wanted to blend in. But then when Hunter bought me a traditional African cloth/scarf, I was thinking, "I'll just look like a wanna-be". Hunter's response: "You are way too worried about clothes." He's right. I'm gonna stick out no matter what. Anyway, I didn't want to leave the house. I didn't want to talk to anyone. I knew what tasks needed to be done that day, but I didn't feel motivated to do any of them….and then I began to recall all the lame radio commercials that list the symptoms of depression and started to wonder. Thankfully, Hunter encouraged me to get out, and I got over it pretty quickly.

Nyumbani Kwetu "Our Home"

Footage of our house in Kenya on the morning after we arrived. Sept 2013.

First Impressions

On our way home from the Mombasa airport, Hunter's boss, Jason, pointed out that just over the hill which was blocking our view of the right side of the highway, was the city dump and a bunch of little shacks built along it. A moment before, I had wondered why a woman with a pail in one hand and a child's hand in the other, was walking from that direction in between the lanes of this pretty busy highway. I realized that she had likely just finished picking through the garbage for food and things she needed.

My thought process the whole drive home went something like this: "Wow. I am in a foreign country--a really foreign country"…."This is AWESOME!"….. and then, I'm afraid to admit, a "Holy [expletive]!". I was literally seeing things like African women walking along the dirt side of the road with huge bundles on their heads. Only the bundles weren't beautiful baskets and bags like I had seen in paintings, but dirty 10 gallon buckets, worn down burlap bags, or bundles of sticks.

So many people were out on the streets just walking or standing around. I've since realized that people are out roaming the streets all day because a) their homes are too small to just hang out in, and b) many are unemployed. My eyes are beginning to see how blessed I've been.